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Some people shout to be heard. Others withdraw to protect their peace. And then there are those of us who choose stillness over drama, grace over noise, and boundaries over battles. But make no mistake — just because we are quiet does not mean we are weak. In a world that often equates loudness with power and silence with passivity, being firm with kindness can feel like walking a tightrope. You want to protect your boundaries without becoming harsh. You want to speak truth without losing your softness. But here’s the truth: you can be kind and clear. Gentle and unshakable. Calm and powerful. 🌍 A World That Misreads Silence We live in a culture that often confuses volume with strength . If you're not loud, you're seen as unsure. If you're not confrontational, you're assumed to be submissive. If you walk away instead of arguing, people think they’ve won. But what if silence is a choice, not a weakness? What if walking away is wisdom, not surrender? What ...

Let’s be honest — the system wasn’t built for all of our children. It wasn’t built for the child who learns differently. It wasn’t built for the one who needs more time. It wasn’t built for the nonspeaking child, the anxious child, the child who doesn’t “fit” the mold. I’ve watched systems — schools, policies, therapies — overlook brilliance, punish difference, and ignore potential. I’ve seen children treated like problems to be fixed, rather than people to be understood. And I’ve watched caregivers carry guilt and grief that was never theirs to hold. So, how do I stay inspired? How do I keep showing up in spaces that feel broken? Let me tell you. 💛 ✊🏾 I Stay Inspired Because I See What the System Doesn’t The system sees “challenging behaviour.” I see a child trying to cope with an overwhelming world. The system sees “delayed milestones.” I see potential unfolding at its own divine pace. The system sees “low-functioning.” I see intelligence that isn’t packaged in tradit...

Have you ever wondered why some children light up when they’re read to, while others can’t sit still for more than a few minutes? Or why some learners retain every word of a song but struggle with written notes? The answer often lies in their learning style . In this blog post, we’ll explore two powerful but very different learning styles : the auditory learner and the kinesthetic learner . Understanding the difference between these two can completely shift how we teach, support, and communicate with the children in our lives. 🎧 What is an Auditory Learner? Auditory learners process and remember information best through sound . They thrive in environments where they can listen, speak, and hear ideas being explained. Common Traits: Enjoys being read to Remembers what they hear better than what they see Talks through problems or ideas Likes music, rhymes, and sound-based memory tricks Often repeats things aloud to remember them How to Support an Auditory Learner: Read al...

Let’s tell the truth: This world isn’t always kind to tender hearts. It teaches children to "toughen up," to "stop crying," to "behave," before it ever teaches them how to understand the storm inside their chest. And yet, what we need most—now more than ever—are children who grow up knowing how to feel , how to listen , how to pause , how to be human. Because emotional intelligence isn’t a luxury skill. It’s survival. It’s healing. It’s leadership. It’s peace. What If We Raised Children Who Weren’t Afraid of Their Own Feelings? Imagine a child who knows it’s okay to be angry—and how to channel that anger without hurting others. A child who can say “I’m scared” instead of shutting down. A child who sees someone else cry and doesn’t laugh or look away, but sits beside them in silence. That child becomes the adult who doesn’t run from discomfort. That child becomes the adult who doesn’t hurt others just to feel powerful. That child becomes a...

In a world that praises academic success, social status, and material achievements, it’s easy to forget that emotional intelligence (EQ) is one of the most important life skills a child can develop. It’s what helps our children navigate friendships, express themselves clearly, bounce back from setbacks, and grow into kind, grounded adults. As parents, caregivers, and educators, raising emotionally intelligent children isn’t just a modern trend—it’s a gift we offer the world through the next generation. And the journey starts with us. What Is Emotional Intelligence? Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and express emotions—both one’s own and those of others. It includes empathy, self-regulation, motivation, social skills, and self-awareness. A child with high EQ: Can name their feelings and express them in healthy ways. Understands how their actions affect others. Can handle conflict constructively. Feels confident in who they are. Shows kind...

It’s one thing to talk about emotional intelligence. It’s another to sit in front of a child who is overwhelmed, crying, screaming, or melting down—and meet them with calm instead of control. But here’s the truth: regulation is not taught through yelling. It’s taught through co-regulation. That means we calm ourselves first so they can borrow our nervous system until theirs catches up. Here’s how we help a child come back to center—gently, patiently, lovingly: 🌬️ 1. Start With the Breath You don’t have to say much. Just breathe with them. Loud, visible, exaggerated breaths. “Let’s breathe together. In through your nose… out through your mouth. Like you're blowing out candles.” Children mirror us. If you breathe calmly, they often will too—even if it takes a moment. 🤲 2. Offer Grounding, Not Correction Avoid rushing into “What did you do?” Instead say: “Let’s pause.” “I can see this is hard.” “You’re safe. I’m right here.” Place a hand gently on their back or offer a hug if they w...

There’s a popular phrase in many educational and therapeutic spaces: “All behaviour is communication.” It’s shared with good intentions — to help us look beyond the surface, to listen more deeply, to see the person behind the behaviour. But let’s be honest. Sometimes, behaviour isn’t communication. Sometimes… it’s regulation. A nervous system doing everything it can to stay safe, stay grounded, or simply survive. And when we mistake regulation for communication , we risk misreading, mislabeling, and even punishing the very strategies that help someone hold it together. 🧠 Understanding Regulation Self-regulation is the ability to manage your internal state — physically, emotionally, mentally. It’s how we calm down when overwhelmed, focus when distracted, or recover from stress. For many of us, this process is invisible and automatic. But for others — especially neurodivergent individuals or people with sensory differences — regulation takes work . Real, physical, emotiona...

Burnout doesn’t always look like crying in a corner. It doesn’t always look like chaos or falling apart. Sometimes, burnout wears lipstick. Sometimes it smiles. Sometimes it keeps showing up — even when it’s barely hanging on. If you’re the one people count on, the one who always “has it under control,” this post is for you. Because burnout for people who keep it together doesn’t look like collapse. It looks like quiet exhaustion. It looks like numbness. It looks like doing everything… and feeling nothing. 🌡️ Signs You Might Be Burned Out (Even If You’re Functioning) You wake up tired, even after sleep. You're short with people you love, and you feel guilty about it. Everything feels heavy — even the simple tasks you used to enjoy. You scroll, distract, overthink — anything but sit with your own feelings. You forget things. You lose track of time. You're always "on," but never really present . You wonder if you're just “being lazy” — but deep down,...

There’s a quiet pressure that so many parents carry — the pressure to get everything right. To always be patient. To always have the answers. To never lose your cool. To raise children who never stumble, never struggle, and never break your heart. But here’s the truth that so many of us need to hear: Your children don’t need a perfect parent. They need a present one. 💚Presence Over Perfection We live in an age of comparison. Social media shows us filtered families with coordinated outfits, peaceful dinner tables, and smiling kids who always seem to listen. And while there’s nothing wrong with celebrating joy, it can make the rest of us feel like we’re not measuring up. But being a good parent was never about looking perfect. It’s about showing up. Again and again. For the hard conversations. For the morning chaos. For the late-night tears. For the moments when it would be easier to escape — but you stay. 🧠 What Children Really Remember Ask any adult what they remember...

We live in a time where individualism is often praised, and personal success is measured by how much you can accumulate, outperform, or outshine others. Social media is filled with highlight reels and “me-first” mantras. In all of this noise, one of the quietest — and most powerful — things we can teach our children is empathy. Empathy is not weakness. It’s not just “being nice.” It’s the courage to care. To notice. To listen. To respond with humanity. And it’s something children can learn — when it’s modeled and nurtured. 🌱 Empathy Starts at Home Children are not born knowing how to care for others — it’s something they learn over time through observation, conversation, and connection. They learn it from how we treat them, how we treat others, and how we handle disagreement, pain, or difference. If we want children to grow up with empathy, we need to: Listen to them fully , even when they’re small or struggling to express themselves. Treat others with kindness , especially...

If you’re part of the neurodivergent or disabled community — or work closely with it — you’ve probably heard it before:  “Aww, you’re so inspiring!” “I don’t know how you do it.” “God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers.” These comments are usually meant well. But let’s talk about why they’re actually harmful — and how we can shift the narrative. When we call disabled people “inspirational” just for existing, we're often saying more about our own low expectations than their actual achievements. Living life while disabled is not automatically brave. Using a wheelchair or letterboard doesn’t make someone a hero. Surviving in a world that constantly overlooks you — now that takes strength. But it shouldn’t be necessary. Here’s what we need to remember: 🌟 Disabled people are not here to inspire you just by being themselves. 🌟 They are not lessons, objects of pity, or feel-good stories. 🌟 They are full human beings — with agency, desires, talents, and frustrations. In...

When we talk about inclusion in education or society, we often focus on ramps, visuals, or assistive tools. These are important — but inclusion doesn’t start with access. It starts with mindset. And the most radical, powerful mindset we can adopt is to presume competence. Presuming competence means believing that every individual — regardless of how they communicate — is intelligent and capable of learning. It means speaking to people, not about them. It means offering the same expectations, choices, and respect to a nonspeaking person as we would to anyone else. In the world of Spelling to Communicate (S2C), we see every day how life-changing this presumption is. So many of our students have spent years — even decades — underestimated, misjudged, and misunderstood. Not because they couldn’t think, but because their bodies couldn't express their thoughts in a typical way. But the moment we offer them a letterboard, a safe space, and the belief that they can, they rise. They spell. ...

How small, consistent actions can make a huge difference Every July 18th, South Africa celebrates Mandela Day — a day dedicated to the spirit of giving, kindness, and service inspired by Nelson Mandela’s legacy. The call is simple but powerful: “Do 67 minutes of good” — representing the 67 years Mandela fought for justice. Mandela Day is an incredible opportunity to raise awareness, rally communities, and give back. But what about the other 364 days of the year ? For families of children with special needs, advocacy isn’t a once-a-year event — it’s a daily journey. It’s the constant push for understanding, access, and inclusion in a world that isn’t always ready or willing. Today, I want to share some ideas and inspiration on how we can turn Mandela Day’s energy into a year-round commitment to special needs advocacy. 💡 Why Everyday Advocacy Matters Special needs families face challenges that don’t stop on Mandela Day: Schools that lack resources or refuse enrollment Social s...

Breaking the silence around autism, shame, and societal expectations In Africa, we are raised to believe in the strength of community. We are taught that “it takes a village to raise a child.” But what happens when the village rejects the child? What happens when culture — the very thing meant to uplift us — becomes a barrier to understanding and accepting children with disabilities? In my work with autistic and nonspeaking children, I have come face to face with a painful truth: disability is still wrapped in silence, shame, and stigma in many African communities. Today, I want to unpack the double stigma our children face — and why it’s time we speak louder than fear, tradition, or taboo. 💢 The Cultural Labels that Hurt In some communities, autism is not even recognized as a real diagnosis. Instead, families hear: “Your child is cursed.” “You made a mistake spiritually — this is your punishment.” “This child is not normal. Take them to the prophets.” “Keep that child i...

A call to action for a continent rich in culture but starving for inclusion I was born in Africa. I teach in Africa. And I love Africa deeply. But I also need to speak truth  because our autistic children are suffering in silence, behind closed doors, in rural villages and urban cities, in families filled with love but lacking support, and in schools that were never designed with them in mind. We cannot talk about progress, development, or Ubuntu while still hiding our autistic children , calling them cursed, refusing them education, or denying them access to tools that help them thrive. So, dear Africa, I’m writing this with both love and urgency: Our autistic kids deserve better. 🚫 What We're Getting Wrong Too often in African communities, autism is misunderstood or not even understood at all. Some of the most common, painful misconceptions I’ve encountered: “She’s like this because her mother was bewitched.” “He’ll outgrow it once he starts talking.” “It’s punishmen...

A glimpse into a space where neurodiverse minds bloom When people hear I work with nonspeaking and minimally speaking autistic learners, they often imagine a room full of silence, tantrums, or chaos. They couldn’t be more wrong. Yes, there are hard days. Days filled with emotional overwhelm, challenging behaviors, or heartbreaking stares from children who so desperately want to be understood. But those aren’t the full story. My classroom is also a place of magic  where communication is reimagined, trust is built word by letter, and silent voices roar louder than you could ever expect. So come with me. Let me take you inside my classroom  and into the hearts of some of the most incredible minds I’ve ever met. 🧰 The Tools: Building a Pathway to Expression At first glance, my classroom doesn’t look very different. Desks. Whiteboard. Posters. But look closer and you’ll notice tools that you don’t often see in traditional schools: Letterboards  These are our commun...

Why Labels Hurt More Than They Help in Autism Support “He’s low functioning.” “She can’t talk, so there’s not much going on.” “He’ll never live a normal life.” These phrases echo through clinics, classrooms, and even homes whispered with sadness or stated with finality. But what if I told you that the idea of a “low functioning” child is not only inaccurate, but incredibly harmful? As a practitioner of Spelling to Communicate (S2C) and a special needs educator, I have had the honour of working with dozens of autistic children many of whom had been labeled as “low functioning” simply because they are nonspeaking or struggle with motor control. And yet, these same children have written poetry, expressed deep emotions, questioned God, debated politics, and shared powerful insights about their world. So let’s talk about the myth of the “low functioning” child. 💭 Where Did the Label Come From? The terms “high functioning” and “low functioning” originated as a quick way to desc...

For far too long, the phrase “special needs” has been whispered loaded with pity, fear, or discomfort. People hear it and assume limits. They lower expectations. They look away. But I want to change that. Because behind every label, behind every diagnosis, behind every behaviour that makes someone "different" — is a gift waiting to be unwrapped. A strength waiting to be seen. A story waiting to be told. 💭 What If We've Been Looking at It All Wrong? What if instead of focusing on deficits, we looked for design? What if instead of saying “He can't speak,” we said, “He's teaching us to listen differently”? What if instead of assuming a child who flaps their hands is “disruptive,” we noticed their excitement, their joy, their effort to regulate in a world that can be overwhelming? Because the truth is — every person has a purpose . And sometimes, the most profound insights come from those the world overlooks. ✨ Real-Life Gifts in Unexpected Packages I work...

Every time I sit beside a speller, letterboard in hand, I remind myself: I am not here to teach them intelligence. I am here to witness it. Because behind every pointed letter, every trembling finger, every deep breath — is a story. A voice. A person finally being heard. Spelling to Communicate (S2C) is not just about letters. It’s about life. Today, I want to take you behind the boards — into the moments that changed me. Not because of how “well” someone spelled, but because of the truth, courage, and beauty that poured out. 🌱 “I’m Not Stupid. I’m Just Silent.” I remember my very first session as a PIT with a open and fluent young boy, about 15 years old. Energetic, curious eyes. Nonspeaking, according to his medical records. “Limited understanding,” they said. Until we gave him a letterboard. His first full sentence? “I’m not stupid. I’m just silent.” His mom wept. I held back my own tears. That day, I realized I wasn’t just holding a board — I was holding the key to som...

Have you ever looked into someone’s eyes and known they had so much to say but the words just wouldn’t come out? That’s the reality many nonspeaking, unreliably or minimally speaking individuals live with every single day. Not because they don’t have thoughts, intelligence, or opinions. But because their bodies don’t cooperate with their minds in a way that allows them to communicate traditionally. This is where Spelling to Communicate (S2C) comes in — and it’s changing lives. 💡 What is Spelling to Communicate? Spelling to Communicate is a method that supports individuals with motor and sensory differences — often those on the autism spectrum — to express themselves by pointing to letters on a letterboard or keyboard. It may look simple. Someone points to letters. A communication partner reads aloud what they spell. But what’s happening is nothing short of powerful: a voice being unlocked. A story being told. A mind finally being heard. 🚫 Let’s Clear This Up: They’re Not Just Copying...

By Mufaro Glaudine Pennelope Musadavira When you first hear the words, "Your child has autism," a wave of emotions crashes over you confusion, fear, love, and an overwhelming desire to do everything right. The books, the blogs, the doctors they all give you the facts. But there’s so much they don’t tell you. This journey is not just about therapies and milestones. It’s about discovering a kind of strength, beauty, and connection you never knew existed. 1. The Diagnosis Is Just the Beginning They don’t tell you that the real journey starts after the diagnosis. That it’s not about fixing your child it’s about understanding them. Every meltdown, every silence, every repetition has meaning. You begin to learn a new language the language of patience, of observing, of deep listening. 2. You Will Become a Warrior and a Gentle Whisperer No one prepares you for how fierce you’ll become when advocating for your child. Whether it’s with schools, doctors, or even family members who don’t...